AN UNFORGETTABLE DAY
January 28 will forever be a memorable day in my life. It is the day my mother was born. And…
BYPASSED
So folks . . . I did a thing. On Tuesday 30 May 2023, I...
WHERE’S MY MOTIVATION?
For much of my life, I was driven and busy and energetic and doing shit all the time. I didn't…
BOUNDARIES
Over the weeks and months and years of my healing journey, I have heard the word 'boundaries' whispered in my…
TAKING UP SPACE
I take up space in this world and I don’t like it. I am wired...
LIFE LESSONS LEARNED ON KINABALU
I did a hard thing. Well… It was hard for me. Perhaps you would find...
TRAVELS IN SAMBAS
Well a wedding is one thing, but discovering a little piece of Indonesia that rarely...
MARRIED IN SAMBAS
I am so proud, excited and overwhelmed to share the story of my son’s marriage...
BOUND TO MY BODY
I have made it abundantly clear since I started sharing my story with you, that I have an eating disorder.…
PUT AWAY THE MOP
My house was spotless when I was growing up. I can take no credit for...
SIZE ZERO
I was at the gym shop the other day, buying new gym clothes. As you do. While rifling through the…
THIN PRIVILEGE
The things we take for granted . . . I have experienced a great deal...
PRECIOUS THINGS
Becoming a grandma brings back all those beautiful memories of becoming a mum. Being a new mum brought me -…
ABSENCE MAKES THE HEART GROW FEARFUL
My mother swore by the old adage that absence makes the heart grow fonder, I've found for many things, absence…
ADVENTURES IN BOOKLAND
A story for those who are long-recovered or want to understand more about the origins of eating disorders. For family…